Not heading South this winter

So in the last month I planned on going to South Carolina for my fathers back and neck surgery. Last night I called him to verify plans so I could make it down there and help him out as much as I can. When we were on the phone it just felt like I was just inconveniencing him. So we had a huge disagreement and I decided that arguing about me not going is just not worth it. So now I have no plans for the 20-22 of October. Thinking about going to magic mountain next week! I talked to my former co-worker that said she would hook me up! If you aren't doing anything and wanna go to Magic mountain let me know!
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